Am I stupid for being bothered by how I say I love you and half the time I feel like it's not said back anymore? Or am I just an idiot? Or how I feel like it used to be said all the time, and now it's irrelevant or something? That's why relationships are so frustrating. Every one of them in some way. You get past the "oh you're so cute," and talking all day and night phase, and then it's like... okay, what happened. It's different. I know I'm not the only female who wishes those nice things didn't always go away. And I'm not oblivious. I realize relationships progress and change and grow, but, maybe my mind is just making up feeling less loved. I don't know. I really don't.